Proverbs 18:1
Isolation is defined as the complete separation from others; confinement; segregation; detachment; exile; withdrawal.
We don’t have to experience loneliness and isolation any longer because God has already provided a way to fulfill our deepest desires and He does it through relationships, starting with Himself and then with others. Jesus loves us just the way we are and invites us to have a relationship with Him. He said, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” Jesus invites us to go through this life with Him. He wants to help us carry our burdens and fulfill the deepest desires in our hearts. To break out of our isolation, we must begin by re-thinking our view of the church and revising our approach to relationships: (1) Realize your need. It’s our pride that keeps us believing that we don’t need other people. (2) Move toward others. It might seem intimidating, but most people are struggling as you are, they don’t have it together. They need you to make the first move. (3) Be vulnerable. I’ve learned that people who act or look like they have it all together really don’t. (4) Change your thinking. Challenge those “old tapes” that play negative thoughts in your head. (5) Take risks. Step out, join a group, and reach out to someone. (6) Be empathetic. Identify with others’ hurts and become other-centered. I have never found a great listener who doesn’t have tons of friends. (7) Pray. Pray, pray, pray. Trust God.
I come by this afternoon to encourage you to move beyond what’s holding you back so that you can grow with Christ and serve Him with an even greater passion. Jesus died on the cross so we would never have to experience the ultimate pain of rejection or isolation. Be bless and I love you!!! JE